Woman, be more than what the world wants you to be

Ramya SriramComics, Most popular, Women empowerment5 Comments

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Being a woman is hard in any part of the world. In several countries, women simply don’t have the power to exercise their choice without facing cultural backlash at best and possible death at worst. But even in countries where women can make a choice without the (very real) fear of abuse/death/execution there is the fear of  what people will say, of being rejected by society and your family, of treading a very lonely path.

Just imagine a world where women could wake up and make a choice fearlessly. The choice to make our own decisions, the choice to marry or reproduce or have a cat or climb a mountain or work from home or wear a miniskirt. The power to simply be. The freedom to live without fear, walk the streets without being armed with umbrellas and pepper sprays, the freedom to live without being judged.

A lot of women do succumb to pressure, it’s easy to give in. Ever so often, I hear an unhappy woman tell me, “But I don’t really have a choice.” I see women being pressurized into marriage in India: “I don’t really have a choice.” I hear of women giving up their careers because their in-laws don’t approve: “I don’t really have a choice.” I see women putting up with husbands who abuse them: “But I don’t really have a choice.” It’s like women are constantly living life in between the frying pan and the fire, trying to find middle ground, never quite allowing themselves (or being allowed) to live a life which is entirely theirs.

I am conscious of saying that we do have a choice comes from a place of privilege. Yes, we do have a choice. But I hope for a world in which we could exercise that choice while being completely unafraid, without worrying about who’s going to stare at me in my bikini, who’s going to judge me for my burkini, what if I wore a miniskirt, what if I divorced my husband, what if I didn’t have kids, what if chose to not be a homemaker. The list goes on. The world puts out a very narrow little box for women to fit into. I just hope we can be bigger than what the world wants us to be.

5 Comments on “Woman, be more than what the world wants you to be”

  1. I choose to be me, not thinking about the society, people and etc. I choose to BE BOLD FOR CHANGE.

  2. Unfortunately having a kid isn’t a choice for everyone — for some of us, it’s nearly impossible, despite our best efforts. I love your drawing though!

  3. I would absolutely LOVE to have this as a poster for my classroom! Are there any available?

  4. freedom to choose is everything including the real power to wield. But people don’t live and operate in a vaccum so everywhere choice bears consequences which people are not ready to face atleast not alone so they over think or entirely give up their freedom to choose. FOC is such an important concept that it can be practiced by anyone kids, girls, boys, older people etc. Also FOC yields consequences that time bound.

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